Writing Your Memoir
A self-study course companion

Writing Your Memoir

A self-study course — teach yourself the craft, one module at a time.

One idea runs through everything. The situation is what happened. The story is what it means. Name both here, then keep returning to them as you work.

Situation — what happened
Story — what it means

Each module gives you four things. Learn it teaches the craft idea directly. Read this tells you exactly what to read and what to watch for. Try it is a short exercise to do on your own. Your project is the thing you make that module — the milestone that builds toward your finished chapter.

There's no clock, but a rhythm helps. One module every one to two weeks works well, except the drafting and revision modules (5 through 7), which deserve more time. Set a regular writing time you actually keep; consistency beats intensity. And always do the reading for a module before you start it — the books are doing half the teaching.

You don't have a workshop, but you still need outside eyes eventually. Lean on a writing partner or two trusted beta readers, on reading your work aloud, and on drawer-time: set a draft aside for two or three weeks, then read it as if a stranger wrote it. Distance turns you into your own editor.